WHY DREAMS DIMINISH??
In our childhood, if anyone asked, ’What do you want to become?’, we use to have a list full of professions even if we don’t know the correct spelling of it. The anxiety, excitement while we speak about our future was priceless. I am an engineering student pursuing degree in CSE stream. In my childhood, I used to have one aim for one standard. In first class, I wanted to be an IAS officer in first standard. In second, a dance choreographer and next a software engineer. Finally, I fixed IAS. But, as my parents did not get satisfied with my 10th marks, I was not able to tell my wish to parents.
After joining in my higher school, the only goal of mine was to satisfy my parents with my marks. At last, by working day and night, sacrificing my little enjoyments, I somehow was able to achieve the highest marks(976/1000). I thought at least now, I got a chance to tell about my dream. This time, my wings spread in the way of media. While preparing for my final exams, I wrote a suspense thriller story. It was a big hit in my class. But for girls that too toppers, it was very difficult.
Therefore my father’s dream became my dream. There was no space for my feelings. But, there was only one thing that made me stood strong is , ”If my trust was my heart, my hard work is my spine ”. Self-confidence increased to the ultimate point. My graduation was full of downs. No ups. Procrastination, thinking about past and future, not being in present were my daily activities.
Then I started to take note of all my distractions.
1. Alternatives:
Once
upon a time, only television used to be there in house. We should see that with
mother permission and when father comes it changes to news channels. Now, we
have phones, laptops, iPods and others electronic gadgets which comes under
freedom of being a graduate.
2. The
influence of others:
In
our daily process, we spend time with many people, friends, relatives, faculty
and many. One says eating baadam increases your memory and other says it’s very
costly instead find an alternative for it. Being frank both are correct. Now
confusion starts. The solution is simple; the choices we take are depended on
two ways. One is by heart and the other by brain. It’s who should judge the
correct choice. “Bad choices make a good story but good choice makes a good
life.”
3. Self-destruction:
We
always wanted to live in a world which we like. The saddest reality is many
people hate the reality. To escape from the present situation we create our own
world, where we can enjoy every moment of it. In a single word, it’s the heaven
space.
For example, a lecture is going in the class, but we don’t like it, we
have hardly chances of speaking with our friend. Then immediately we switch to
our thoughts which make us get relief from the boring class. Having addicted to
this, we lose our presence of mind, concentration lacks. Finally remain as
failure.
The
above mentioned terms are major distractions for our dream to get diminish in
size and our let us loose our self-confidence. Our life game will be played by
others. Our thought will be judged, our ideas remains worthless, time gets
wasted.
IS THERE NO SOLUTION TO THIS??
Yes,
every problem has solution. And that solution lies in us. We are the one who
develop us, we are the one who destroy us. Nothing comes in a day, if it so, it
wont stay for a second. No need to work 18 hours, not necessary to concentrate
for 5 hours.
DIVIDE AND CONQUER
Stay
focused. Never waste time. Break the work. Implement ideas. Listen to others.
Follow your path.
Become
hero of your own life. Never give chance to regret.
ALL THE BEST.
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